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Monday, January 22, 2007

 

I thought I should give you an update on what's been going on in the last few months.

  • Sept 2006 - my parents started staying at my aunt's place in London, Ontario.  She has contacts with some local doctors from whom my dad could get better cancer treatment - advance stage cancer
  • October 2006 - my brother quit his job in Hong Kong.  He came back to Canada to take care of the parents
  • The doctors told my dad he has "weeks" to live
  • November 2006 - dad's condition stabled a bit, enough to take a Carribean cruise.  But his pain lingered
  • December 2006 - they moved back to Toronto
  • December 31, 2006 - the lingering abdominal pain suddenly turned into sharp pain.  We took him to Sunnybrook's emergency room
  • Throughout the entire time he was in the hospital right up to the end, he had good days and bad days.
  • My mom was almost constantly by his bedside.  We tried our best to spend as much time with him as possible
  • Two of my aunts flew in from Hong Kong to see him.  They each stayed for a couple of days.
  • January 15, 2007, 9:45am - after having breakfast, my dad fell asleep.  Then he peacefully passed away.  My mother was by his side.
  • January 20 - the funeral was held at York Cemetery.  A number of friends, family and former colleagues flew in from all over the world.  Edmond Chan was finally laid to rest on this cold but bright winter day around 1pm.
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omg... i'm so sorry... =(
Posted 1/22/2007 7:19 PM by souxie Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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My condolences....

Really. Hope you get through this as well as you are able.

Posted 1/22/2007 7:26 PM by bwatty Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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Posted 1/22/2007 8:12 PM by ScatteredAround Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I am truly sorry for your loss.
Posted 1/22/2007 8:41 PM by heyjulsiscoo Xanga Premium Member - reply

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my heart goes out to you and your family. it's been a long haul by the sounds of it. i hope you had the opportunity to say everything you wanted to.
Posted 1/22/2007 9:06 PM by Crustytuna - reply

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My condolences to you and your family. Boy, this post totally brings back the memories of when I went through this battle with cancer with my father too. We even went on a caribbean cruise as a last family trip. Those two years were such a blur when I look back at them, now 12 years ago. Part of me remembers thinking, at least he isn't suffering anymore, but such a small consolation. Anyways, know that people are thinking of you, even if we are only online people.
Posted 1/22/2007 9:19 PM by Stickles - reply

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*HUGS*  Condolence to you and your family.
Posted 1/22/2007 9:24 PM by blondless - reply

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i wanted to add my condolences to you and your family as well.
Posted 1/22/2007 9:54 PM by Stacily - reply

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My deepest sympathies to you and your family.  I hope you're doing well!
Posted 1/22/2007 10:09 PM by GEEKsters - reply

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condolences to you and your family. *hugs*
Posted 1/22/2007 11:35 PM by leeka - reply

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awww, i'm so sorry to hear about your dad. he must have been a very wonderful man to have raised such devoted and loving children. rest in peace.
Posted 1/22/2007 11:56 PM by AtomicKittyn - reply

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Sorry to hear that. My condolences to you and your family.
Posted 1/23/2007 12:17 AM by Punkboy - reply

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Seems like there are a lot of stories about fathers and cancer lately...

What helped me through my dad's battle last year was knowing that his pain and suffering were finally over... I don't know if that helps but focusing on that really kept me from going nuts

One day at a time... I hope you, your family and especially your mother are coping as well as can be under the circumstances. Good wishes to you...

Posted 1/23/2007 12:42 AM by emmses - reply

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*hugs* My condolences to you. My thoughts are with you and your loved ones.
Posted 1/23/2007 6:45 AM by wasabibaby - reply

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My sympathies. Please take care.
Posted 1/23/2007 8:28 AM by staytru - reply

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my condolences to you and your family!
Posted 1/23/2007 12:54 PM by petitekiu - reply

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I'm so sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.

Stay strong.
Posted 1/23/2007 2:18 PM by PepsiDrinkingGuy - reply

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Hi Terry,

I'm so sorry to hear about your dad.  I hope you and your family are ok.  Know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.  Hope you have better news next time around.

C

Posted 1/23/2007 5:49 PM by silleeee - reply

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My condolences to you and your family.
Posted 1/23/2007 6:14 PM by Eggyplant - reply

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My condolences to all of you
Posted 1/23/2007 10:30 PM by MissLui - reply

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My condolences to you and your family Terry. xo

Posted 1/24/2007 2:27 PM by miss_joyce - reply

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Condolences to you and your family.
Posted 1/24/2007 10:46 PM by BaronV - reply

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This is why we need to all fight cancer.
Posted 1/26/2007 6:53 PM by ced - reply

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*hugz* May he rest in peace! You take good care of yourself T!

lotz of love

Posted 2/3/2007 1:34 AM by Airkiss19 - reply

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My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Posted 2/5/2007 11:19 PM by miniwee - reply

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